(Clit)eracy Matters!: 6 Fascinating Clit Facts

(Clit)eracy Matters!: 6 Fascinating Clit Facts

The clitoris is an amazing (yet often ignored) piece of female anatomy that typically plays second fiddle to the vagina. This is very sad considering this piece of fleshy goodness is responsible for 70 to 80 percent of female orgasms. Have you been missing out on the clit magic? Has your partner been coming up […]

5 Ways to Maintain Your Sexy in 2019

5 Ways to Maintain Your Sexy in 2019

Happy New Year! It’s 2019 which means new resolutions, new goals, and new aspirations to be better versions of ourselves. I know many of us are resolving to eat better, exercise more, save money, and kill bad habits. Now, whether we drop those last twenty pounds, commit to veganism, or create that emergency is yet […]

Manual Overdrive: 5 Fast Facts About Masturbation

Manual Overdrive: 5 Fast Facts About Masturbation

It’s May! That means it’s National Masturbation Month! All month long I will dedicate my blog posts to self-love and pleasure. To kick off the month, check out these 5 interesting facts about masturbation! 1. Masturbation Got a Surgeon General Fired!                                                                                                         Source Wikipedia Former Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders was fired by President Bill Clinton […]

The Skinny On Squirting

The Skinny On Squirting

Hey Dr. Wendasha, “How do I squirt?” I’ve been asked this question at least a million times (probably more) since I started this sex education journey. Quite frankly, I am not surprised. Thanks to the overwhelming supply of free Internet porn, many have witnessed their favorite actresses’ mind-blowing ability to shoot large amounts of liquid […]

Friends With Benefits: The Rules of Engagement

Friends With Benefits: The Rules of Engagement

We all have our opinions about what exactly “Friends With Benefits” (FWB) are. However, we typically agree that a FWB is a person who you have sex with, but, don’t have any emotional ties to. Basically, a casual, commitment-free, emotionless sexual relationship with a “friend”. (Now, whether a FWB is truly a friend is up for […]

How Long Does Sex Really Last?

How Long Does Sex Really Last?

For years, R&B crooners have serenaded and tempted us with their songs about ‘getting it on ‘til the break of dawn’. But, are most people really sexing for hours and doing it all night long? According to the science, ABSOLUTELY NOT! Well, at least not for heterosexual couples having old-fashioned vaginal sex. Historically speaking, renowned […]

The Hard Truth About Penis Size

The Hard Truth About Penis Size

Penises come in all colors, shapes, and sizes. They even point in different directions; some point to the left, others to the right, and a few curve upward. Some penises have their skin intact (uncircumcised), while others rock the skinless look (circumcised); although, I’ve long realized that many people have actually never seen an uncircumcised […]

Reimagine Sex Ed

Reimagine Sex Ed

Before we get to the business of reimagining sex ed, we must first define “sexual health”. The World Health Organization (WHO) defines sexual health as: “…a state of physical, emotional, mental and social well-being in relation to sexuality; it is not merely the absence of disease, dysfunction or infirmity.” WHO goes on to state: “Sexual […]