Trust Me, Your Vulva Looks Normal

Trust Me, Your Vulva Looks Normal

Thanks to perfectly symmetrical drawings in middle school textbooks and copious amounts of Internet porn, many of us have developed strange, anxiety-inducing complexes about the visual aesthetic of the vulva. There are countless online forums and threads addressing women’s concerns about whether or not their vulvas look normal. “Why does my inner lips hang lower […]

I Did a Yoni Steam….Here’s What Happened…..

I Did a Yoni Steam….Here’s What Happened…..

My yoni (a.k.a. vagina) is pretty healthy. I have no history of major sexual and reproductive health issues. I keep regular appointments with my gynecologist. I wash her with warm water and vagina-friendly cleansers. I don’t douche. I get yearly STD checks. And I keep her neat and trimmed. In short, nothing major has happened […]

The Skinny On Squirting

The Skinny On Squirting

Hey Dr. Wendasha, “How do I squirt?” I’ve been asked this question at least a million times (probably more) since I started this sex education journey. Quite frankly, I am not surprised. Thanks to the overwhelming supply of free Internet porn, many have witnessed their favorite actresses’ mind-blowing ability to shoot large amounts of liquid […]

How Long Does Sex Really Last?

How Long Does Sex Really Last?

For years, R&B crooners have serenaded and tempted us with their songs about ‘getting it on ‘til the break of dawn’. But, are most people really sexing for hours and doing it all night long? According to the science, ABSOLUTELY NOT! Well, at least not for heterosexual couples having old-fashioned vaginal sex. Historically speaking, renowned […]

The Hard Truth About Penis Size

The Hard Truth About Penis Size

Penises come in all colors, shapes, and sizes. They even point in different directions; some point to the left, others to the right, and a few curve upward. Some penises have their skin intact (uncircumcised), while others rock the skinless look (circumcised); although, I’ve long realized that many people have actually never seen an uncircumcised […]

V is For Vulva (and Vagina too…)

V is For Vulva (and Vagina too…)

Vaginas make people uncomfortable. Although they are no different than any other body part, people tend not to giggle, frown, or speak in hushed tones when discussing arms, legs, hearts, lungs, breasts, and backs and their associated ailments. In fact, I found that sexual anatomy was one of the most difficult subjects to teach. Every […]