Manual Overdrive: 5 Fast Facts About Masturbation

Manual Overdrive: 5 Fast Facts About Masturbation

It’s May! That means it’s National Masturbation Month! All month long I will dedicate my blog posts to self-love and pleasure. To kick off the month, check out these 5 interesting facts about masturbation! 1. Masturbation Got a Surgeon General Fired!                                                                                                         Source Wikipedia Former Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders was fired by President Bill Clinton […]

How to Date a (STD) Positive Person

How to Date a (STD) Positive Person

Let’s face it, STDs are pretty damn common. In 2016 alone, over 2 million cases of chlamydia, gonorrhea, and syphilis were reported in the US. It is even estimated that 50% of sexually active people will get a STD by age 25. Thankfully, the majority of diagnosed STDs are curable. Simply pop some pills or […]

Oral Sex is Safe Sex….Isn’t it?

Oral Sex is Safe Sex….Isn’t it?

Oral sex is pretty damn common. More than 85% of adults aged 18-44 have had oral sex at least once. While it’s a good alternative to vaginal or anal penetration, it’s come to my attention that many believe oral sex is risk-free. Grant it, no one has ever gotten pregnant, or impregnated someone, through oral stimulation. However, […]

Trust Me, Your Vulva Looks Normal

Trust Me, Your Vulva Looks Normal

Thanks to perfectly symmetrical drawings in middle school textbooks and copious amounts of Internet porn, many of us have developed strange, anxiety-inducing complexes about the visual aesthetic of the vulva. There are countless online forums and threads addressing women’s concerns about whether or not their vulvas look normal. “Why does my inner lips hang lower […]

The Skinny On Squirting

The Skinny On Squirting

Hey Dr. Wendasha, “How do I squirt?” I’ve been asked this question at least a million times (probably more) since I started this sex education journey. Quite frankly, I am not surprised. Thanks to the overwhelming supply of free Internet porn, many have witnessed their favorite actresses’ mind-blowing ability to shoot large amounts of liquid […]

How Long Does Sex Really Last?

How Long Does Sex Really Last?

For years, R&B crooners have serenaded and tempted us with their songs about ‘getting it on ‘til the break of dawn’. But, are most people really sexing for hours and doing it all night long? According to the science, ABSOLUTELY NOT! Well, at least not for heterosexual couples having old-fashioned vaginal sex. Historically speaking, renowned […]

Reimagine Sex Ed

Reimagine Sex Ed

Before we get to the business of reimagining sex ed, we must first define “sexual health”. The World Health Organization (WHO) defines sexual health as: “…a state of physical, emotional, mental and social well-being in relation to sexuality; it is not merely the absence of disease, dysfunction or infirmity.” WHO goes on to state: “Sexual […]