(Clit)eracy Matters!: 6 Fascinating Clit Facts

(Clit)eracy Matters!: 6 Fascinating Clit Facts

The clitoris is an amazing (yet often ignored) piece of female anatomy that typically plays second fiddle to the vagina. This is very sad considering this piece of fleshy goodness is responsible for 70 to 80 percent of female orgasms. Have you been missing out on the clit magic? Has your partner been coming up […]

Sex Talk Sunday: Should you tell your partner how many people you’ve had sex with?

Sex Talk Sunday: Should you tell your partner how many people you’ve had sex with?

It’s Sex Talk Sunday!!!!!!!!!! And today we’re talking body counts! Should you tell your partner how many people you had sex with? Does body count even matter?

Manual Overdrive: 5 Fast Facts About Masturbation

Manual Overdrive: 5 Fast Facts About Masturbation

It’s May! That means it’s National Masturbation Month! All month long I will dedicate my blog posts to self-love and pleasure. To kick off the month, check out these 5 interesting facts about masturbation! 1. Masturbation Got a Surgeon General Fired!                                                                                                         Source Wikipedia Former Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders was fired by President Bill Clinton […]

Trust Me, Your Vulva Looks Normal

Trust Me, Your Vulva Looks Normal

Thanks to perfectly symmetrical drawings in middle school textbooks and copious amounts of Internet porn, many of us have developed strange, anxiety-inducing complexes about the visual aesthetic of the vulva. There are countless online forums and threads addressing women’s concerns about whether or not their vulvas look normal. “Why does my inner lips hang lower […]

I Did a Yoni Steam….Here’s What Happened…..

I Did a Yoni Steam….Here’s What Happened…..

My yoni (a.k.a. vagina) is pretty healthy. I have no history of major sexual and reproductive health issues. I keep regular appointments with my gynecologist. I wash her with warm water and vagina-friendly cleansers. I don’t douche. I get yearly STD checks. And I keep her neat and trimmed. In short, nothing major has happened […]

The Skinny On Squirting

The Skinny On Squirting

Hey Dr. Wendasha, “How do I squirt?” I’ve been asked this question at least a million times (probably more) since I started this sex education journey. Quite frankly, I am not surprised. Thanks to the overwhelming supply of free Internet porn, many have witnessed their favorite actresses’ mind-blowing ability to shoot large amounts of liquid […]

How Long Does Sex Really Last?

How Long Does Sex Really Last?

For years, R&B crooners have serenaded and tempted us with their songs about ‘getting it on ‘til the break of dawn’. But, are most people really sexing for hours and doing it all night long? According to the science, ABSOLUTELY NOT! Well, at least not for heterosexual couples having old-fashioned vaginal sex. Historically speaking, renowned […]

The Hard Truth About Penis Size

The Hard Truth About Penis Size

Penises come in all colors, shapes, and sizes. They even point in different directions; some point to the left, others to the right, and a few curve upward. Some penises have their skin intact (uncircumcised), while others rock the skinless look (circumcised); although, I’ve long realized that many people have actually never seen an uncircumcised […]

V is For Vulva (and Vagina too…)

V is For Vulva (and Vagina too…)

Vaginas make people uncomfortable. Although they are no different than any other body part, people tend not to giggle, frown, or speak in hushed tones when discussing arms, legs, hearts, lungs, breasts, and backs and their associated ailments. In fact, I found that sexual anatomy was one of the most difficult subjects to teach. Every […]