Oral Sex is Safe Sex….Isn’t it?

Oral Sex is Safe Sex….Isn’t it?

Oral sex is pretty damn common. More than 85% of adults aged 18-44 have had oral sex at least once. While it’s a good alternative to vaginal or anal penetration, it’s come to my attention that many believe oral sex is risk-free. Grant it, no one has ever gotten pregnant, or impregnated someone, through oral stimulation. However, […]

Trust Me, Your Vulva Looks Normal

Trust Me, Your Vulva Looks Normal

Thanks to perfectly symmetrical drawings in middle school textbooks and copious amounts of Internet porn, many of us have developed strange, anxiety-inducing complexes about the visual aesthetic of the vulva. There are countless online forums and threads addressing women’s concerns about whether or not their vulvas look normal. “Why does my inner lips hang lower […]

I Did a Yoni Steam….Here’s What Happened…..

I Did a Yoni Steam….Here’s What Happened…..

My yoni (a.k.a. vagina) is pretty healthy. I have no history of major sexual and reproductive health issues. I keep regular appointments with my gynecologist. I wash her with warm water and vagina-friendly cleansers. I don’t douche. I get yearly STD checks. And I keep her neat and trimmed. In short, nothing major has happened […]

The Skinny On Squirting

The Skinny On Squirting

Hey Dr. Wendasha, “How do I squirt?” I’ve been asked this question at least a million times (probably more) since I started this sex education journey. Quite frankly, I am not surprised. Thanks to the overwhelming supply of free Internet porn, many have witnessed their favorite actresses’ mind-blowing ability to shoot large amounts of liquid […]